Junction House Parties Etiquette

 

If you are new to the particular swingers club or party that you will be attending, it is always a good idea to receive clarification about the rules and etiquette that is required at the club. If you have any questions please do not hesitate to contact us by calling 07754 943 511 begin_of_the_skype_highlighting            07754 943 511      end_of_the_skype_highlighting or email us at houseparties4u@gmail.com  Or just have a chat with us on the night you attend if there’s anything you’re unsure about

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It is important that if you choose to attend a party at our club that you follow all of its rules. If you are not comfortable with the rules of the party, it’s best to find another swing event to attend instead. 

When invited to a swing party it is considered polite to always RSVP, whether you choose to attend or not. Remember that RSVPing does not mean saying yes to an invitation, it just means replying by stating your intentions. When accepting an invitation it is always a good idea to ask the host(ess) if there is anything that they would like you to bring. 

Make sure that before leaving for a swing event that you are well groomed. Shower, shave if necessary, brush your teeth, use deodorant, trim your nails if you like to stimulate your sex partners digitally, etc. There is no bigger turn off than poor hygiene. 

Also, pack your own bag of toiletries, towels, and safer sex supplies. It is unhygienic to share towels with strangers and it is always good to know that you have your favourite lube or condoms on hand.

 
If you are attending a couples swing event it is important to arrive with your partner. It is inappropriate to arrive separately. 

You should not attend a couples only event if you are single, and it is never considered ok to hire an escort to attend a couples only swing event with you. furthermore, you and your partner need to decide whether you want to always participate together or if it is ok to have social time alone at a swing event.

If the decision the two of you come to is that you will only have sex play together it is important that you do not then abandon your partner while you socialize at the event on your own. If a swing event is providing a group sex room it may be inappropriate to enter the room without your partner. If you are unsure about this, speak to the host. 

It is usually considered rude to enter a private or group sex room to just stare and objectify the participants. It is also inappropriate to have an argument with your partner at a swing event, especially in a room where others are having sex. If you and your partner enter into a disagreement, the best thing is to leave the event until you can resolve the conflict in private.

It is considered inappropriate at most swing events to come high or stoned. It is also considered poor etiquette to become intoxicated at a swing party. Not only is this inappropriate for the other guests, but you may find yourself doing things that you don't really want to. 

If you are drunk you may not remember what you did the previous evening. being stoned or intoxicated can ruin an otherwise healthy enjoyable event.

You should never do something with which you are uncomfortable. It is always important to say yes only when you mean yes and toclearly say no when you mean no. Appropriate swing etiquette when turning down a sexual proposition is to simply say, "No, thank you."

 
Do not give an explanation because it is unnecessary and often leads to more hurt than just a simple refusal. 

If you proposition someone and they say no, never pressure or coerce the person and do not ask for an explanation. Nobody will do anything they don’t want to do at any of our parties.

The rule at all swing events is that consent is of the utmost importance and that all participants be willing participants. If someone pressures you after you say no you should immediately report this to the host/manager. If you pressure or coerce someone, you will probably be reported to the host/manager.

Most important of all, have a good time! This is a great time to try new sexual activities, explore your wildest fantasies in a respectful manner, and push the limits of your sexuality and lifestyle.

The general rules of etiquette above apply to all venues, Junction House has a few of its own, again only common sense to make the party fun for all and to protect all our enjoyment. To this end we ask that:

No drinks taken upstairs aside from bottled water purchased from our bar.

No smoking upstairs.

Please don’t try to gain entry to the locked rooms when they are locked, please respect the privacy of those in the room.

No watersports are allowed at JCT2

Please do not have penetrative sex in the hot tub

Please sit on a towel if naked.

Please use bins provided to dispose of wet things.

No illegal drugs of any sort will be permitted anywhere on the premises. This is not a sop to the law, it is very much the personal policy of the hosts. Any one found using drugs will be asked to leave.